Dec 2, 2012; Arlington, TX, USA; Dallas Cowboys quarterback Tony Romo (9) smiles prior to the game against the Philadelphia Eagles at Cowboys Stadium. Mandatory Credit: Matthew Emmons-USA TODAY Sports

The story, the legend, of Dallas Cowboy’s QB, Tony Romo was a good one… until it wasn’t.

I, like most of CowboysNation, haven’t been able to wrap my mind around how come this Tony Romo led Dallas Cowboys team can’t get deep into the playoffs or to a SuperBowl.  I also hadn’t been able to wrap my mind around why Tony Romo got singled out and hated for it.  Until now. (more…)

Oct 21, 2012; Charlotte, NC, USA; Dallas Cowboys tight end Jason Witten (82) tries to stay in bounds before being pushed out by Carolina Panthers outside linebacker Thomas Davis (58) during the fourth quarter at Bank of America Stadium. The Cowboys defeated the Panthers 19-14. Mandatory Credit: Jeremy Brevard-USA TODAY Sports

In one of the greatest moments in Dallas Cowboys franchise history; in the Third Round of the 2003 draft, the Dallas Cowboys select Jason Witten from Tennessee.  With all that is wrong with today’s Cowboys, there is something very right about Jason. He is as deserving as any player ever to wear the Cowboy star on his helmet.

It’s so easy to forget his 2012 record breaking season (most receptions in a single season 110 and 18 in a single game by a tight end) and the amazing career he has had thus far for the Cowboys. Why? That is how he wants it. For him, it truly is a team game to win or lose and it’s all about winning a Super Bowl.

Bill Parcells knew he had something special in Jason. Confirmation came pretty quickly when in his rookie season playing for Bill he broke his jaw. He would miss only one game and he had three plates inserted.

Parcells knew that kind of toughness is something you can build a Championship team around. Bill’s blueprint for a Super Bowl always included a strong defense, led by an outstanding Linebacker, and a go to guy in the trenches for his Quarterback. Jason Witten was his Mark Bavaro and later on in 2005 DeMarcus Ware would be his Lawrence Taylor.  If only he could have stayed to finish the plan.

Jason was recruited by the University of Tennessee as a Defensive End prospect but once he switched to Tight End he quickly flourished. He never lost that Defensive End mentality. That was never more evident than in 2007 when he ran for a 53 yard reception against the Eagles after losing his helmet. Even the biggest Cowboy haters reluctantly had to smile at that play.

The greatest testament to his dedication and courage happened this year in a preseason game against the Raiders in mid-August. After being tackled he suffered a lacerated spleen; a very serious medical condition. The Cowboys not wanting to risk his health and legal issues told Jason the only way he could play to start the season was if he could find a Doctor to medically clear him against the Giants.  It wasn’t easy but he found one.

He was not effective in that Giant game, catching only 2 passes for 10 yards but his courage inspired the team and the Cowboys won the opener 24-17. His next two games would not be any better for him; catching a combined 66 yards on 6 receptions against Seattle and Tampa Bay respectively. He definitely was not healthy but you have to wonder if some of it was mental. Perhaps, and rightly so, he was hearing his wife’s voice. To risk your life for football, when you have a wife and two kids? That must have been really tough on him, probably more than the injury itself.

Nonetheless, in true Witten fashion not only does he overcome the slow start of the first three games; he ends up breaking the all-time NFL single season record for Tight Ends.  Amongst his personal achievements you can also add being an 8 time pro bowler and the Cowboy record for most career receptions with 806.

This year around the Cowboys there is a lot of talk about a window. Is it closed, cracked, still open? I can tell you this, Jason Witten is now 30 and even though I live in New York City, when he retires and they put his name up in the Ring of Honor I will be there at the Stadium. I owe that to him in appreciation for all he has left on the field and given me as a fan.  A much bigger debt is owed by his teammates, coaches and the Owner. So before the window does close, go help him win a Super Bowl Championship.

Drew Bledsoe was imperceptibly off in 2006. He was 34 years old, but he led the Cowboys on 4 game-winning drives the previous season. In 2006, his fizzling on final drives led to losses in Jacksonville on Opening Day and also a Week 5 loss in Philadelphia, which was probably the most egregious and the one that galvanized Cowboys fans to become Romosexuals.

Throughout the first seven weeks of the season, Mickey Spagnola backed the status quo and tried to discredit Romo. He would take fan questions about inserting Romo and treat them as though the question asked if the AIPAC was fixing Cowboys games. Similarly, when Bill Parcells announced leading up to the Carolina game that Romo would start, Jerry Jones said he believed Bledsoe should remain the starter.

I remember everything. I was 18 years old and lying on my parents’ couch in the living room on Sunday, October 29th. I sprained my ankle the previous Tuesday at basketball practice and was currently employing the R.I.C.E. (Rest. Ice. Compression. Elevation) method, because I didn’t want to get pipped out of starting lineup. Maybe this was my curse for taking behind her boyfriend’s back to the movies on a date that tall, curvy gal with aspirations and a voice  for Nashville. I couldn’t be sure. Hopefully, the curses wouldn’t extend to my Cowboys. We needed this win to keep the season alive. I couldn’t take another year of not making the playoffs.

Terrell Owens gave a wink to the skycam in pre-game warmups that was used for all Cowboys games on NBC ’til his departure in 2008. On the other side was a former Cowboys receiver in Keyshawn Johnson, who was having a typical year with the Panthers. NBC Sports tried to play up the “Keyshawn is getting revenge” story line, but the real storytellers were following this undrafted backup Romo in his first NFL start.

T.O. tells Romo not to listen to the haters. Chuck Burton — AP

After a Panthers three-and-out, Tony Romo threw his first pass, a 7-yard completion to Terrell Owens. In subsequent years, Owens would have the most touchdowns from Romo. It’s a record that still stands at 35. Also on the same drive, Andre Gurode’s chop block nullified a 9-yard catch by tight end Anthony Fasano, another nascent narrative: Gurode making things hard for Romo. Ultimately, the Cowboys’ drive stalled and they punted away to the Panthers.

The Cowboys defense provided a second consecutive three-and-out. The Cowboys offense provided a somewhat balanced attack with Julius Jones gains, Romo runs, and Owens catches to try a 48-yard field goal. The Cowboys special teams, notably pricey free agent kicker Mike Vanderjagt, provided zero points.

Carolina capitalized on the good field position and marched down the field for a touchdown in seven plays. The drive was aided by Anthony Henry’s pass interference with Keyshawn Johnson, awarding the Panthers 20 extra yards.

On the very next possession, Romo threw an interception to Chris Gamble. Very quickly, the Panthers cashed that turnover into 7 points with a 24-yard end-around by receiver Steve Smith.

Although down 14-0 as the second quarter dawned, Tyson Thompson gave the Cowboys good field position at the Panthers 47, 15 of which came from Karl Hankton’s personal foul penalty. Sadly, this was all rookie Tyson Thompson could give for the season, as he was injured on that late hit out of bounds. The Cowboys were down two touchdowns, but Bill Parcells, Tony Sparano, and Chris Palmer, the triumvirate that organized the offense, didn’t abandon the rush. A balanced approach where Julius Jones gained 18 yards and Romo threw for 29 yards helped the Cowboys shave the margin to only 7 points. On that drive, Tony Romo threw a 3-yard touchdown to Jason Witten, which was the Pro Bowl tight end’s only touchdown catch of the season.

The Panthers gained 40 yards and spent 5:29 to do it. The Cowboys got the ball back at their own 12 and proceeded to drive 68 yards to the Panthers 20. Julius Jones rushed for 19 yards, and Romo threw for 52 yards. But Romo was doing something in this game he rarely does nowadays, and that’s run when it’s open. Romo gained 3 yards, but it was his third rushing attempt on the game. He was already at 17 yards. It proved he was a double threat, maybe not to the degree of Donovan McNabb, but he was no statue to pocket passing like Drew Bledsoe. Ultimately, the Cowboys trimmed the margin to 4 with a successful 38-yard Vanderjagt field goal. WIth 19 seconds left in the half, the Panthers ran DeShaun Foster twice before throwing two short passes to Steve Smith. At halftime, it was 10-14 Panthers.

In the third quarter, neither team put any points on the board. Both the Panthers and the Cowboys would move the ball to the perimeter of field goal range and stall out. There were a total of four punts, two by each team. For the Cowboys, this back-and-forth pace played right into the Panthers’ hands. It’s not like the Cowboys needed a field goal; they needed to score a touchdown since they were down four points.

Dallas’ final drive in the third quarter began to feature Marion Barber as the runningback. This drive lasted 5:06 into the fourth quarter. Barber gained 14 yards on this drive, and helped the Cowboys reach the Carolina 6. However, the Cowboys could only settle for a field goal and cut the lead to one crucial point.

On the ensuing kickoff, the Panthers lost their patience in this war of attrition. Fullback Brad Hoover took the kickoff, and instead of going down and protecting the possession, he tried to advance it. Sam Hurd scored a fumble and collected it at the Carolina 14-yard line. On the next play, Julius Jones ran the ball up the middle for a touchdown. At this point, an extra point would put the Cowboys up by only six points. A touchdown would defeat them, presuming the Panthers got one in the final seconds of the game to repay the Cowboys in a similar manner on Christmas Eve last year. So, Parcells elected to go for a two-point conversion, which Terrell Owens successfully converted with a key grab.

The Cowboys went on to score 14 more unanswered points to make the final score 35-14. It’s true that the Cowboys’ touchdowns were all rushing, but it was evident to see on this night who had given new life to the Dallas offense. John Madden summed it up perfectly in the game’s final moments: the Cowboys need a guy that has “it,” and they’ve found that guy in Tony Romo. And Bill Parcells found that missing fun in coaching football, and showed it with a few kisses for his players. The older codger even played around with “The Player.”

Romo would lead the Cowboys to five more wins on the season to finish out 9-7 and qualify for a wild card berth. He still had maturing to do, but it was evident from that Week 8 encounter that the Cowboys’ quarterback position was locked down at last. No more playing around with ex-pitchers, has-beens, or never-weres. The Cowboys found the diamond in the rough with Tony Romo. The leadership qualities were yet to come, but the playmaking ability was evident and inspiring.